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Sept. 13, 2023

BIG Question: Is it a privilege, obligation or burden to care for our…

In this episode of Eldercare Success , we discuss the answers to a question that everyone should ask themselves before and while caring for an aging parent: Is this a privilege, an obligation, or is it going to be a …

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Sept. 6, 2023

Is There Magic in a Pill? What's new with dementia?

Who’s out there in the medical world fighting to protect our loved ones with Alzheimer’s or dementia? I address this big question, and others, with my guest, Dr. Allen Power , a geriatrician and noted expert in providing good...

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Aug. 30, 2023

Mom and Dad Inc.: Easier Ways to Start

Have you ever considered that your #career skills might be your secret weapon in helping you better survive caring for your aging parents well? In this episode, I dive into how to think, and work through your #caregiving yea...

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Aug. 23, 2023

Care Lessons with The school of Unusual Life Learning

In this episode, my guest Jeanne Denney and address how to talk about life's most difficult moments. When the end of life draws near, what do those you’re caring for want for themselves? It’s a question that stops many dead …

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Aug. 16, 2023

I Want to Go Home! What does that mean?

What does it mean when your mom pleads with you and says, “ I want to go home ,” but she’s already at home? Even worse, your lead aide tells you what she really means is that she wants to …

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Aug. 9, 2023

Sandwich Generatopm Caregiving Tips.

In this episode of Doing it Best with Eldercare Success , we unpack the ultimate sandwich-generation caregiving experience. If you’ve been caught between caring for aging parents, in-laws, a spouse, your own kids, and even yo...

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Aug. 2, 2023

Is It OK To Lie To Mom And Dad? Truth's Told And More1

In this episode of Eldercare Success, I address one of the more challenging issues you’ll have as a caregiver – “is it ever okay to lie to an elderly parent?” This is a tough question, and you'll see it's trickier …

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July 26, 2023

Finding Money at The Social Security Office!

In this compelling episode of Eldercare Success, I speak with two esteemed experts on social security benefits. My guests are Marc Kiner and Jim Blair who know this subject from the inside out. This is an invaluable discussi...

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July 19, 2023

Caregiver Mistakes I Made, So You Don't Have To.

In this episode of Doing it Best with Eldercare Success , I share the top 10 mistakes that I made along the way in caring for my parents. These were not-so-proud moments in my journey. Hopefully, my experiences will help …

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July 12, 2023

Infection Control, Things You Don't Know.

What happens when an infectious disease spreads through a care facility or nursing home? Just because the Pandemic has been declared over doesn’t mean our loved ones are safe in a facility, hospital, or even at home. In this...

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July 5, 2023

I Secret Shop Care Facility Sales Agents

In this episode, I unearth some of the ways that those “free services” abuse you while proposing to help you find a place for your elderly or infirm parents to live. Most are very adept at pulling on your emotions. …

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June 28, 2023

Will Anesthesia Change Everything?

In this episode, you’ll get an insider’s look into some issues related to anesthesia and some unspoken fears about it when a loved one undergoes a medical procedure. Anesthesia, despite its benefits, can also present problems...

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June 21, 2023

Money Talks with Family

Managing the cost of a parent’s care can be like running a small, complex enterprise. Discussing the ins, outs, and intricacies of financial oversight and care can sometimes bring up all sorts of emotions among siblings. In ...

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June 14, 2023

Caregiver Betrayal and Healing: Part #2

This is part two about the caregiver and the feelings and hurt from betrayal. My guest Holli Kenley , is a licensed therapist, author, and well-known expert on the subject of betrayal and healing. While few caregivers want t...

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June 7, 2023

Mom Got dementia after a hospital Stay!

In this episode, I discuss the challenges of hospital-induced delirium. This syndrome can affect people of all ages, not just older individuals. Drawing from a personal conversation with someone who experienced this, I explai...

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May 31, 2023

Betrayal; healing Caregiver wounds (Part #1)

This is part one of a two-part episode featuring my guest, Holli Kenely, a licensed therapist, author, and well-known expert on the subject of betrayal. While few caregivers want to discuss this topic, many of us suffer invi...

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May 24, 2023

Can Caregiver Stress Cause Memory Loss?

This episode even caught me by surprise. In this segment, I dive into research about how the daily pressures of caregiving can take a serious toll on our own memory, and a few ways to manage stress better. While extreme …

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May 17, 2023

Tea on the Commode, Really Nancy?

How do you cope with an aging mom? So many assume this is the eldest daughter’s job. However, when the one who steps in and steps up had to be a son, things might be different. What do you need …

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May 10, 2023

Is Mom and Dad's Money Safe?

Concerned about recent bank financial failures? Your aging parent may be too, but they might not tell you. When you’re on a fixed or reduced income, every penny counts. In this episode, my guest, Philip Van Doorn from Marke...

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May 3, 2023

How to "Un-Isolate" yourself

If you’re working full time but also caring for an aging parent, the stress and feeling of isolation can be significan t. Adding to that stress can be a fear (real or imagined) of potential retribution from your boss or …

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April 26, 2023

Are you more prepared as a second time caregiver?

Being a caregiver has its joys and tough times, too. Sometimes we step into the role thinking that we are knowing what our job will be. But it’s hard to foresee how being a caregiver will interrupt our families, jobs, …

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April 19, 2023

ER Screw Ups: what should you watch out for?

What happens when you get a call from your dad who says: “ don’t worry, Mom’s just been taken to the ER ,” then hangs upon you? You’re 1200 miles away and on your way to work! The first you …

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April 12, 2023

When Alzheimer's is a Surprise!

What happens when your father, who appeared to be just fine, surprises you by telling you he has Alzheimer’s Disease? Watching anyone’s steady cognitive decline is always difficult. However, my next guest, Peter Maeck took, ...

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April 5, 2023

Senior Dumping and the GoDaddy Guy

What’s Senior Dumping and can it happen to your parents without you even suspecting? In this episode, I share a conversation that I had with a GoDaddy customer service person who had this issue with his dad. While running f...

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